There may be different kinds of abusers but they all do things to make the woman feel emotionally dependant on them and reduce her self worth... It always starts with the little things and those are what I've listed below.. Overtime it gets worse.
I've been told that there are always the little signs we should be careful.. Women having a checklist is seen as her being too picky, but I think it depends on what that checklist consists of..
I think its important that a woman knows what she shouldnt put up with,,
Some examples of what my ex did while we were still dating -
- got jealous when I spoke to an ex or any guy, yet acted like it was ok for him to talk to his exes and females.
- told me how I should/ shouldnt dress
- really friendly yet hardly had any friends
- didnt trust the friends he had
- wanted me to prove I care about him, when I was doing all I could to show I cared.
- restrained me so I would listen to what he had to say
- demanded sexual things that I was uncomfortable with, and when I refused he said if I cared about him Id do it.
- pretended like he was the honest, loyal one and that I was the dishonest one, meanwhile he cheated on me.
-got mad when I told my friends about relationship problems.
- he always wanted to try and prove he was right- not just with me, but with everyone.
- couldnt last in a job and blamed others for losing his job.
- got mad when I changed in front of my female best friend
- I was talking about considering going for waxing and he couldn't stand the idea.
-got jealous when I went to the doctor.
- would come to my school and wait around until I finiished class
